Last night we went to a concert in a bodega and I opted to wear this long brown dress, which I've had for five years. My only problem was what shoes to wear with it. I had decided against wearing heels as we had to walk there and back, and I knew that these ballerinas would go well with the dress, but the key question was how comfortable would they be?
60th birthday dress - bring on the bling! |
Awarded a gold star for comfort! |
We left home at eight o'clock and returned home about five hours later, a bit tired but very happy, having enjoyed an amazing evening. Fortunately chairs had been provided, which meant that I could rest my feet as we listened to the first act (the talented Amarela and her group), while sipping wine and feasting on a variety of delicious tapas. However we couldn't resist the lively music from Al Golpe, the second group to perform. As soon as they launched into their flamenco version of "Bolero" most of the Spanish audience leapt to their feet and I soon persuaded John to join in. It was only after we were safely back home that I realised that my feet had been happy all evening, even when I was dancing, and the old flats were still in my bag.
While sitting there in my comfortable shoes, I couldn't help noticing what shoes the other women were wearing. The majority of the young "chicas" had chosen style over comfort, with staggeringly high heels, though one or two had sensibly gone for stylish flats. On the other hand most of the seƱoras of a certain age (including yours truly) were wearing flat shoes, some of which were stylish - though the majority came under the category of sensible, comfortable shoes. I've already mentioned the difficulty of finding shoes that are both comfortable and stylish here in Spain. After shoe watching last night I wondered if this was because of lack of demand, and whether Spanish women just give up on fashion once they turn 50 or 60. Do you agree that most shoe manufacturers seem to pander to younger women and ignore those of us who would like to be stylish but not at the expense of comfort?
I always find lots of clothes and shoes that are stylish and comfortable. :-)
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Are there any brands in particular that you can recommend, Kathy? My search for clothes isn't helped by the fact that I'm only 5'1" by the way. When I was younger and slimmer I sometimes checked out the children's departments!
ReplyDeleteRegarding shoes, I went into a children's shoe shop today as I was looking for repair paint for a bag that had been scratched and someone recommended it. I noticed that they had some cute shoes and the sizes went up to 38, so next time I'm looking for flats I'll take a look in there!
Sue
ReplyDeleteThat outfit is awesome on you! The bling really works even as a regular style--don't wait for a special occasion to wear it again.
As for your question, I think in the US you can find anything but there does seem to be an "older" feel to many really comfortable shoes. Fortunately I think that is changing.